Take Note

"THE FACT THAT AM NOT MARRIED and WITH NO KIDS of MY OWN DOES NOT GIVE YOU AN EXCUSE TO NOT DO YOUR SHARE...  TO NOT DO WHAT IS RIGHT."

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"MAKING PROMISES TO A SICK PERSON WITHOUT THE INTENTION OF FULFILLING THEM TRULY MAKES THE SICK FEEL EVEN WORSE."

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"CARING FOR AN ILL PARENT HAS NO GENDER SPECIFIC REQUIREMENTS!

IT IS NOT JUST THE MAN'S/SONS' RESPONSIBILITY TO CARE FOR THEIR SICK PARENT - IT IS EVERYONE'S....  

IF WE CANNOT SUPPORT FINANCIALLY, THEN WE TRY AND SUPPORT EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY.... WE DO WHAT WE CAN - AND THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING EVERYONE CAN DO. "

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and MORE IMPORTANTLY:

"BE THERE FOR THE BELOVED SICK ONES,

NOT FOR RELIEVING YOURSELF OF YOUR OWN GUILT."